Bullying can become a cycle that is hard to end. When in the example on "Family Bullies", Victoria states that she later acknowledged that her behavior towards Lily was "a form of bullying", although more of a defensive and isolating type rather than active and offensive. Cycle like this easily grabs the whole family into it, and once someone, in this case the bully Lily, is seen as "the enemy", Lily probably got more threatened and aggressive. Victoria and Lily's family didn't have any other problems, but often there is something else going on in a bully's family that triggers one into bullying others. I was happy to read the semi-happy ending of Victoria's story: "However, the bitterness has left their relationship and they are working on a friendship." I personally think that building and maintaining a loving and respecting relationship with family is one of the most rewarding things in life. No relationship is perfect, but also nobody should have to stand bullying anywhere, especially in their own home.
Emma Hyyppä
Reference: Keith Berry & Tony E. Adams (2016) Family Bullies, Journal of Family
Communication, 16:1, 51-63, DOI: 10.1080/15267431.2015.1111217
No comments:
Post a Comment