
Communication within
a family is very unique because they are relationships we are obligated to be
in those of which are not always ideal but we must live with it anyways. However,
it has been argued by Keith Berry and Tony E. Adams in Family Bullies that “family relationships should be understood as
chosen voluntary, and less obligatory relationships…” as well as the harm that
can be caused when we consider relationships to be involuntary. Along with
that, family members should be able to remove themselves from a situation with
bullying in it without being shamed for it.

That was a lot of
information and you all are probably feeling like not the best family member, don’t
worry, me too. Just remember this, in a couple weeks at the dinner table on
Christmas, instead of ignoring that rude and obnoxious cousin or uncle try to
remove yourself from the situation and evaluate the importance of the
relationship. It is OKAY to sit at opposite ends of the table from that person
and focus on the communication with those who you choose to be around. We all
have those people in our family, but the way we go about handing those
individual speaks volumes about our ability to be effective, respectful and
loving communicators within a family setting.
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